When any dispute, dislike, miscommunication or misunderstanding arises in a relation one can take a
Dumb Decision, Intelligent Decision or Wise Decision.
Dumb decision would be to remain stuck with the issue and keep resisting it either passively or actively. Make your togetherness with that person conditional and go on insisting and demanding the change. By this we give the POWER of our life to that person and situation and convey that he is the authority over us.
Intelligent decision would be to Accept that neither you are able to change the situation the way you want and nor you are able to accept the situation or other persons perception about the situation, and go for a mutual termination of that relation with grace and respect rather than hurt and accuses. By this we take the charge of our lives and allow us the POWER to shape our lives.
Wise decision ……. I leave it to you as wisdom comes from within and cannot be given by anyone else. Only the clue I can share is the wise decision allows you to EMPOWER neither that person only (as in first case) nor you (as in second case) but the RELATIONSHIP ITSELF.
Would love you to share it with me.
Monday, December 15, 2008
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Quote of the Day
He attacked everything in life with a mix of extraordinary genius and naive incompetence, and it was often difficult to tell which was which. - Douglas Adams
What is he trying to say? extraordinary genius = naive incompetence?
Of course. Creative things comes out of naiveness and thats why children are more creative. However this has nothing to do with "Job getting done" and Efficiency. The choice is yours Creativity or Efficiency.
Monday, June 30, 2008
Friday, June 27, 2008
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Story of Stuff (the explosion is about to happen)
This is not just story of USA. It is in fact true for all the "developed" nations. But the real beast will be released when India and China will start contributing in this. Not that they are not contributing already.
Friday, June 13, 2008
Quote of the day.
A man is rich in proportion to the number of things he can afford to let alone. - Henry David Thoreau
Friday, May 23, 2008
Quote of the Day
You will never get all your tasks done anyway, so relax and enjoy the ride.- from "The Energy Bus" by Jon Gordon.
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